There are four basic fights, that most couples eventually encounter, and your relationship either grows, or is diminished; based on how you resolve them. It would be helpful to know this before you get married, and how couples can happily resolve these, to the benefit of their relationship. Not only will I walk you through these common arguments, but show you how to help your relationship grow, after encountering them. A keepsake copy is yours to have on your shelves, as I have put many years and effort into them, they are copywrited, and not yours to share, much as you would want to. Here’s to consciously resolving your differences, without building resentment!